Some people prefer not to label themselves, and for many people their sexual preference and identification changes over time. Whom Should I Tell? Are my feelings for boys and men clear? Coming out is an individual decision, and it's important to do it in your own way and in your own time. Gayness is for the most part a normal variation of sexual development, just as handedness whether you are right or left handed is a normal variation of brain development.
During puberty, you have lots of emotions and sexual feelings.
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Back to top How do I know if I'm gay, bisexual, or lesbian? You may find yourself falling in love with a classmate or developing a crush on a particular adult man. Transgender people can be attracted to men, women, both or neither, regardless of their sex at birth or the gender they choose to live as. Being gay, lesbian or bisexual is normal, but some people don't understand this. Nancy BrownPh. However, no one can tell whether someone is gay unless he or she wants it known.
Yes, you are absolutely normal. I have no idea. Whatever the gender of your partner, you can take steps to protect yourself. You do not have to have sex. I have been alive for 16 years, and I have had two crushes, both straight girls. Anna Rafferty, college student writer Reviewed By: